Hair Texture from shiny to soft?

I don't want shiny hair for the hair type and hair styles I want look better with soft hair, that doesn't look totally dried out but definitely NOT shiny. An example of what an example of it might be: http://i266.photobucket.com/albums/ii278...

http://i266.photobucket.com/albums/ii278...

http://i266.photobucket.com/albums/ii278...

Also anyway to make hair grow thicker?

:/ Like a pill or ANYTHING really.

I'm sick of thin hair that I can barely do

anything with, mainly cause of the bangs area. :[

help please?

Hair Texture from shiny to soft?

u look soooooooooooooo pretty in the second picture, ur face is gorgeous! all that makeup kinda makes u look trashy though ur beautiful just the way u r so don't load it on so much! lol